"Owning Your Financial Future: Embracing Accountability"

"Owning Your Financial Future: Embracing Accountability"

Your most minor favorite thing to do when you’re in financial hot water is to fully accept responsibility for what’s happened over the last few months or years. It’s not so much about self-blame as it is about staying keenly aware of your finances so you can take action to protect yourself.

Perhaps you were laid off from your job or experienced a drop in your business due to the lagging economy. You might have had little warning of what would happen to you financially. However – think of this: if you had been economically prepared for something like this, could your preparations have assuaged the negative impact of the crisis?

Recognize that you can take responsibility now to learn to live below your means, save for your future, and be diligent about spending money. In the meantime, it’s wise to fully understand your role in getting to where you are today.

1. What happened; how did you get here? No, this step is not about kicking yourself. It is, however, about learning from your past experiences. How did you arrive at this place financially? Write down your answers to this question. Be very specific, thorough, and brutally honest with yourself.

  • You may have opened every credit card account offered to you. You might have bought whatever you liked. Or you were trying to keep up with the Jones. Did you want to impress friends?
  • Developing financial habits like eating out several times a week, buying extravagant gifts, wearing expensive clothes, and feeling like you have to have every new gadget will sooner or later cause your financial life to dive unless you’re doing all this while still spending less than you earn.
  • Knowing the reasons for your financial condition is essential so you won’t repeat negative behaviors. You’ll know what to correct and look out for in the future.
2. Have you consistently paid your bills on time? Just to let you know, paying your bills 100% of the time on time is significant. Why?
  • Most creditors charge fees for late payments, so when you pay those fees, you’re giving away money you could use elsewhere, not to mention that your financial reputation is harmed by not paying bills when they’re due.
3. How serious are you about changing? It’s time to ask yourself, “Why haven’t I done something to better my financial situation?” Once you face the answer to that question, you can consider how serious you are about changing your financial habits.

4. Think positively about overhauling your financial condition. You have the power right now to change your financial situation. Believe it because it’s true. If you commit to making the necessary changes, you’ll discover a better financial life – the one you deserve.

I want you to know that taking responsibility for your current situation will empower you to do something about it. It might hurt at first, but to correct an error, you must acknowledge it.

Reviewing how you got into this financial state, admitting late payments, being serious about changing, and thinking positively are all necessary in your quest to take responsibility for your financial condition. Then, sooner than you might imagine, you’ll realize that now you’re the driving force behind a bright, secure financial future.
Retirement Planning Education: Can You Afford to Retire?
By Darnell Frazier July 18, 2025
"Wondering if you can afford to retire? Explore smart retirement planning strategies to secure your future and enjoy financial freedom in your golden years."
Trump's Big Beautiful Bill: A Comprehensive Guide - What You Need to Know Explained.
By Darnell Frazier July 8, 2025
Trump's "Big, Beautiful Bill" extends tax cuts, raises border and defense funds, slashes Medicaid and food stamps, and adds trillions to the deficit.
The Road to Financial Empowerment Podcast by Empowering Your Finance.
By Darnell Frazier May 22, 2025
"Discover 'The Road to Financial Empowerment' podcast—your go-to source for practical tips, inspiring stories, and expert advice on building financial freedom."
Empowering Your Finance: Financial Education
By Darnell Frazier May 15, 2025
"Empower your future with financial education. Learn key principles to budget better, build wealth, and take control of your money with confidence and clarity."
Social Security Cuts for Defaulted Student Loans
By Darnell Frazier May 14, 2025
"Learn how defaulted student loans can lead to Social Security benefit cuts. Understand your rights, the risks, and how to protect your retirement income."
Your Federal Student Loans: Learn the Basics and Manage Your Debt.
By Darnell Frazier May 14, 2025
"Student loan garnishment resumes in 2025. Learn what it means for your paycheck, how to protect your income, and steps to manage or avoid wage garnishment."
Social Security Overpayment Withholding Rate: 50% Update April 2025
By Darnell Frazier May 14, 2025
"Learn about the April 2025 update to the Social Security overpayment withholding rate. Discover who's affected, what's changed, and how to protect your benefits."
Trump's economic trade war is halting shipping at all U.S. ports.
By Darnell Frazier April 5, 2025
Markets react to Trump’s new tariffs. Is a financial storm ahead—or a chance for savvy investors? Here’s what you need to know to protect your portfolio.
Millennials enjoy an afternoon lunch discussing achieving financial freedom.
By Darnell Frazier January 15, 2025
"Master the money skills every millennial needs in 2025. Learn budgeting, saving, investing, and debt strategies to build wealth and secure your future."
A Parent’s Guide to Visiting Colleges with Your Children
By Darnell Frazier December 9, 2024
Visiting a campus in person is the ideal approach to making a decision about where to go to college. As a parent, being informed about the process can help you guide your child towards making the most of their college years and preparing for their future.
Show More